Psychology studies have shown that stress arises from a feeling of lack of uncontrol over one's future. I've been feeling very anxious lately, and although I'm convinced that change is good, it's quite unsettling. I suppose that's part of life; learning to deal with uncertainty and facing the fact.
I really wonder if I should have studied abroad. People who come back describe the experience as phenonmenal, but ultimately I think they are describe the experience in itself, not so much the personal growth. Having grown up and worked in a different country, I think there's a limit to people's elasticity. Anyway, I think I regret it, but may it was for the best?
Change happens so fast. It's my third year as a college student, and I'm still largely undecided about my future. It does unsettle me, as many students have narrowed down their choices, but my scope is still broad and I fear the commitment of being certain.
Conclusion? I will soak up the fact of an uncertain future, and cherish its uncertainty.